Don’t Miss Out on His Purpose

Life was carefree growing up in the seventies and eighties. We were normal kids from small-town Effingham and Teutopolis, Illinois. Our parents were good friends, and we spent a lot of time together. We were definitely more like family than friends, and Janee’ was like a little sister to me. We have many happy memories of playing Barbies and games like “Old Maid” and “Go Fish” for hours on end. Summers were filled with eating popsicles, drinking Kool-aid, splashing in wading pools and running through the sprinkler. We’d catch baby frogs in the spring and butterflies and lightning bugs in the summer.

Our parents would often play cards late into the night, and we would be put to bed. I liked it best when the card games were held at Janee’s house. Janee’s bedroom was just across the hall from the room my siblings and I would be put to bed in. The kitchen, where our parents played cards, was far away down the hall. The arrangement made it easy for us to sneak back and forth in between the rooms and continue playing. The layout at our house was much more difficult with her in my parents’ bedroom just off the kitchen. We tried to continue our fun after we were sent to bed, but it was just too easy to get caught.

Life got busier as we got older, and we lost track of each other for a while. I was excited when I ran into her mother who told me that she had moved overseas to work with missions. We wrote letters and sent e-mails before the days of social media and later found each other on Facebook. From her personal Facebook profile, I found her blog which I now subscribe to so that I can keep up-to-date with how God is at work in her life. She also recently created a Facebook page, “Seasoned with Spice” for those who don’t have time to read a blog but would like to learn about her ministry.

Janee’ is a very good writer and shares fascinating stories of what life in Antwerp, Belgium is like for herself, her Syrian husband named, Hary, and their two young daughters, Phoebe and Maria-Grace. Janee’s blog has been inspiring to me as I have read story after story about God answering prayers and working in ways that only God can work to help Janee’ get Syrian family members to safety when hope would seem lost to most. She also shares stories of Muslims giving their lives to Jesus Christ and sharing his love with others. Life is very different and sometimes challenging in the Muslim community in which Janee’s family lives, but her family loves the people and has a passion to share the love of Jesus with those around them. Because of the war, they also have the opportunity to share the Gospel with refugee’s from Syria and Iraq.

Whether it be Hary’s job, the children’s school, the store, the coffee shop or wherever they go, Janee’s family is committed to God, and their “heart is to see the Arabic world know Jesus.” One emerging ministry of theirs is an ongoing discipleship program that will disciple and train individuals to go out in the villages and small towns to start Bible studies, houses of prayer and churches. They have a refugee feeding project in which a team of Arabic men visit the refugee holding camps and invite people to join them for a hot meal and to hear about Jesus. Almost every single one of those invited come from a Muslim background. They have prayer walks and prayer ministries and also treat Arabic women by hosting a “spiritual day” once a year with singing, teaching, praying and eating together.

The list of how they reach out to the Arabic people and in Belgium and to refugees from Syria and Iraq goes on and on. Janee’s family seizes every opportunity to share the love of Jesus with those around them. They long for the day when Hary, who is a “tent maker” will be free to evangelize full time.

Janee’ was back in the states from July 13 – August 6 this year. I was blessed to hear her speak at her “home” church, First Baptist Church in Effingham, to talk with her over lunch and to hear more about the amazing ways that God is at work in Belgium. I am also excited for the opportunity to partner with her financially through CBF. Who knows? Maybe I will even have the chance to visit her in Belgium someday and partner with her there in prayer, in serving and in sharing the love of Jesus.

In honor of her Janee’s birthday on August 8, I’d love for you to say a prayer for her and her family and to check out her blog, “Seasoned With Spice:  An American Woman in an Arab World” or her Facebook Page, “Seasoned With Spice.” If God tugs at your heart, and you too would like to partner with her financially, you can find more information by clicking here.

As a little girl, I had no idea that God would call Janee’ to join the mission field. I would have never thought that she would find a way to e-mail and get a response from the Queen of Jordan or that she would connect with famous people for help in freeing some of her Syrian in-laws. However, God had a purpose for Janee’ long before she was even conceived; she only had to listen to his whisper on her heart and obey his call.

God has a purpose for you as well! Maybe part of your purpose is in making a donation to help Janee’ and Hary reach the Arab world for Christ. Maybe God plans to send you to Belgium, Costa Rica, Haiti, Thailand, Russia…. Maybe he simply plans for you to share the Gospel of Jesus with your neighbor, co-worker or family member. Whatever your purpose, I hope that you will listen. I hope that you will obey. Don’t miss out on the blessings he has waiting for you!

What Do These Shells Mean?

I love the ocean and I love to hunt for seashells as I walk along the beach. I have accumulated hundreds if not thousands of shells over the years as a result of my relaxing pastime. Some of the shells have a hole. I had always intended to use those particular shells to make jewelry and wind chimes, but I haven’t found the time to do that. Today, I was inspired to sift through those shells and get to work on my first wind chime.

I was reading from the book of Joshua this morning and was reminded of the time that God’s people crossed the Jordan River on their way to the promised land. God actually stopped the waters of the Jordan from flowing to allow them to safely cross. God told Joshua to instruct one man from each of the twelve tribes of Israel to pick up a stone from the midst of the Jordan, from the very place where the priests’ feet stood firmly, and to bring them over and lay them down in the place where they would lodge that night. He told them that the stones would be a memorial to the people forever.

So the twelve men brought the stones, and Joshua set them up at Gilgal and instructed them, “When your children ask their fathers in times to come, ‘What do these stones mean?’ then you shall let your children know, ‘Israel passed over this Jordan on dry ground.’ For the Lord your God dried up the waters of the Jordan for you until you passed over, as the Lord your God did to the Red Sea, which he dried up for us until we passed over, so that all the peoples of the earth may know that the hand of the Lord is mighty, that you may fear the Lord your God forever” (Joshua 4:20-24).

I started journaling years ago and especially like to write down the times that I experience God in my life. I do this because I tend to forget a lot of details.

When I am discouraged, looking back at the times that I have had an encounter with God helps strengthen my faith. It helps me remember who He is and what He has done in me and through me.

Looking back over those encounters with God can also help me when I need direction. By examining the places and events that I have been through, I can have an idea of where He is leading me next.

Another great reason to remember these special moments with God is so I can share those stories with other people. My hope is that when others hear about the impact that God has made in my life, they can see that God is real and “that all the peoples of the earth may know that the hand of the Lord is mighty,”  and that they may fear the Lord God forever. (Joshua 4:24)

I decided to use my seashells for my memorial stones and to use those “stones” to make a wind chime. I will have to finish that project another day, but I do have a nice little pile of memories to read through now. There are some other encounters with God that I didn’t get a chance to write down on a shell, and there will be several to add in the future as God continues to work in my life.

I am so thankful for a God who reveals himself to me through the Bible, prayer, circumstances and the church. I am also forever grateful for a God who desires an intimate relationship with me through His Son, Jesus. My prayer is that I never miss an opportunity He gives me to share with others how awesome He is.

Every Day is Memorial Day to Us–We Remember

What is the true meaning of Memorial Day? Ask any Gold Star family and they’ll tell you what it means. It’s not about the picnics. It’s about the men and women who have given their lives for this country. Every day is Memorial Day to us.”  These words belong to Carol Resh, Gold Star mother whose son, Army Captain Mark Resh was killed in Iraq a decade ago.

I am humbled today as we remember those who died serving our country. Over the years, millions of men and women have committed to serving our nation, and over a million have given their lives so that we could have freedom and security. I did nothing to deserve the blessings that have come because of their selfless acts. It is hard for me to understand why these heroes are willing to risk everything, but I am so thankful to them. I am touched and humbled by these heroes.

At the same time, my heart breaks for the moms, dads, wives, husbands, children, siblings and friends of those who went to battle but didn’t return home. Their lives changed forever as they grieve for their loved ones; our lives changed forever because they saw a greater purpose and gave all they had to achieve it.

May we never take for granted our freedom and safety. These men and women served knowing that they may die fighting for the cause. The price was so high. Their lives were cut short, but their impact lasts through the ages.

This stanza in Moina Michael’s poem, “We Shall Keep the Faith,” says it well,

We cherish, too, the poppy red

That grows on fields where valor led;

It seems to signal to the skies

That blood of heroes never dies,

But lends a lustre to the red

Of the flower that blooms above the dead

In Flanders Fields.”

She is right. These men & women did not die in vain; their blood never dies. Let us never forget these heroes.

John 15:13 says, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” I am humbled today not only as I remember those who laid down their lives serving our country but also for Jesus who died in my place.

You see, God created us in his image and loves us with an everlasting love. However, we sinned, and sin separates us from God. Romans 6:23 tells us that “The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Jesus came to earth knowing that He would have to lay down his own life to conquer sin and death so that we could be made right again with God. He knew what was ahead before He was wrongly accused, mocked, spit upon, beaten and slain. Yet He was willing to give his all so that my sin could be forgiven and I could have eternal life. Again, I did nothing to deserve this. Romans 5:6-8 says, “You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” We were bought with a price.

This is not something we remember just today. This is not something we only reflect upon when we take communion. Every day is Memorial Day to us. May we never take for granted the sacrifice that Jesus made so that we could live eternally in heaven with him.

In Search of My Dream Job

One of my boys asked me a couple of weeks ago, “Mom, is the job you are doing right now your dream job?” The question caught me off guard. “Well,” I answered, “I had always thought it would be nice to work in a church, & I really do love it, but I’m not sure I could say that it’s my dream job.”

“Well, then,” he asked, “What would your dream job be if you could do anything you wanted?” I had no answer. I really didn’t know.

It was kind of strange, but he didn’t let the question go. A few days later, he asked again, “Mom, you never answered. What would your dream job be?” I was a little sad after thinking about it because I realized I didn’t really have a “dream job” on my heart. For some reason though, I couldn’t stop thinking about the question. After all, I am getting older and don’t have as much time left to chase after dreams. I decided that I had better figure out what my dream job was before it was too late.

There are a lot of things that I enjoy doing. For example, I love to sing, but there are probably only about 5 notes that I can hit really well. (I apologize to those who have been unfortunate enough to stand in front of me while I sing my heart out in church.) I love to listen to people, encourage them and help them sort things out. However, I didn’t pursue a degree in counseling because I wanted to start a family as soon as possible. My “baby” only has 2 years left in high school now, but I don’t think my older brain could concentrate on learning anymore, and I don’t think I could juggle going to school while working full time. I love pouring into kids and helping shape them, but again, I don’t want to return to school for a degree. I have also always wanted to write a book, but I have enough trouble writing one blog post a week. Besides, I’m not currently getting a lot of traffic on my blog spot.

Not having a dream has really bothered me for some reason, but I believe I have finally come to a conclusion today. I think that it is okay to say that in this season of life I really don’t have a dream job. However, I do know some of the things I do in life that give me the most joy. The times when I am the happiest and most content are the times that I’m in sync with God and He blesses me by working in me and through me.

I may not be a great singer, but I love to sing praises to God and to worship Him. I don’t have a degree in counseling, but God does send me people to listen to, encourage and point to him. I don’t have a degree in teaching, but I have been given opportunities to build up high school students in my life group each week and to love and encourage children by volunteering in my son and daughter-in-law’s classrooms. I also may not be confident with my writing skills, but once in a while, I am blessed to know that God used the words I wrote to touch and encourage someone and to show them how awesome He is.

So, although there truly may not be a dream job for me, I am really pretty content to dabble in this, dabble in that and simply watch each day for the opportunities to let Jesus love the people through me. Or maybe I could say that my dream job is simply to be a vessel that God chooses to work in and through to bring him glory.

“For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” ~Ephesians 2:10 NLT