My cape is at the dry cleaners. I dropped it off over Christmas break last year and just haven’t been able to pick it up.
It’s been nearly three months since I published my last blog post, (eighty-five days to be exact), and it’s been killing me that I haven’t written. I love to write and create!
Since today marks the second anniversary of my first blog post, I couldn’t resist resurfacing if only for a brief moment. I had faithfully posted at least once a week for twenty-two consecutive months, and I posted every single day for Advent season two years in a row. So, this slump I’ve been in since Christmas has been driving me crazy. How has this even happened when I love blogging so much?!
Last summer, one of the ministers I work with mentioned in a staff meeting that our church was going to start the “Discipleship Training Institute” (DTI class). This pilot program they were getting ready to offer would be like taking college level Bible classes such as Old Testament Survey and New Testament Survey. I knew it was something I needed to do; I could feel it in my heart.
It didn’t make sense to take the class because I was already juggling too many activities in this season of my life. I was working full time in a church, and though office hours are 9:00 AM – 3:00 PM Monday through Thursday (plus Sunday), ministry often needs to take place outside those limited hours. My husband and I were also leading a high school life group in our home, and I was faithfully writing a blog each week and creating designs for my Etsy store that offers Christian greeting cards and gifts. Then, there were all of those many things that we women must do to take care of our families and homes.
I prayed what I always pray when my schedule gets too full and I want to take on something new, “Lord, what am I doing that is of you, and what am I doing that is simply my idea? What would you like me to continue, and what can I drop? What are ‘You’ calling me to do?”
Normally, when I pray those things, God makes it clear to me what I need to let go of. Yet, this time, I couldn’t’ hear an answer.
I talked to my husband and kids. My husband was not too keen on me giving up the housework, my least favorite thing to do. Ha! Since that idea didn’t work, it seemed that the logical thing to do would be to give up my blogging and Etsy store. They were taking a lot of my time but weren’t really flourishing. However, when I mentioned letting those things go, my wonderful husband said, “I think you need to give it more time,” and my kids said, “But, Mom, that’s what you love to do.”
So, I decided that I would take the classes, prioritize everything else and see what fell. I did well for a while. I combined my homework and blog for my writing assignments. That worked well for about five weeks until my assignments changed. After that, I began to struggle in my writing. I made it through Advent by tweaking many of my previous Advent posts and adding a few totally new Advent posts when inspiration hit. I made it through Christmas day, and anticipated my traditional New Year post which is one of my favorites to write.
For the last four or five years, I have spent New Year’s Eve reflecting on the year that had passed and seeing where God might be leading me or challenging me for the New Year. However, when I reminisced over the entries I had written down each day on my 2018 blessings calendar and read through my 2018 journal entries, I was sad because I couldn’t see much fruit.
I had certainly been busy. I was even spending my time on “good things!” Yet, somehow, something wasn’t right. It was then that my blogging fell apart.
Reluctantly, I decided to take a week off and sort things out, but I was in no better shape the next week. For several weeks, I would think to myself, “This is the week I will write again!” I’d even get some great ideas… but, the words wouldn’t come. My mind was jumbled. After two months, I started wondering if I would ever write again.
During this season of being a bit silent, I have been taking more time to listen for the quiet whisper of the One who has all the answers. It took a while for me to hear anything because my mind was too cluttered. Slowly but with His perfect timing as always, God began to unclutter my mind and untangle my heart. I have been learning some things about myself that I don’t like, but they are things that need addressed. This is both good and necessary if I am going to move forward.
I have many dreams and goals, and I often feel a need to make things happen “right now.” But sometimes, we have to let God do some work inside us before we can proceed with those dreams. Sometimes, we have to let the Holy Spirit produce His fruit in us rather than through us.
Hopefully, I can share more about these things soon, but for now, I am taking life one day at a time and trying to work on the things that God has brought to my attention. I am thankful that God didn’t let me get too far off course before wooing me back close.
I’d rather live each moment exactly where God wants me to be than to rush ahead and miss out on His blessings. And so, for now, my cape is at the dry cleaners, and I’m not quite sure when I will pick it up. I’m anxious to see what God’s plans are! Whatever would we do without Him? He knows us better than we know ourselves. All praise to Him, always!
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